This year started with a project that had been in my mind for many years and finally we made a start. The idea is to create a sensory garden to provide a calming, empowering, and enjoyable space tailored to how Iris experiences the world.
It will be our safe place, a sanctuary, no matter what happens in the world we will know we can go out into the garden and feel peaceful. Iris can use the sensory input to self-regulate, the garden can become a safe retreat during shutdowns, anxiety, or emotional overload.
I thought I would share with you some of our progress so far and highlight some of the benefits of creating this garden.
Physical and nervous-system benefits
Gardening can naturally support:
- Movement and coordination
- Fine motor skills
- Vestibular and proprioceptive input
- Sleep and mood regulation through outdoor light exposure
Sensory exploration
Autistic people can be sensory-seeking, sensory-avoidant, or both depending on the situation. A sensory garden allows for safe exploration
- Soft textures
- Different colors and light levels
- Fragrant plants
- Tactile pathways
- Safe things to touch, smell, create and observe
- Musical instruments
- Water
Unlike crowded public environments, the input can be intentional and adjustable.
Support for special interests
Iris enjoys nature, wildlife, art, weather, birds, colors and collecting things. The garden can connect deeply with those interests. Special interests are often emotionally regulating and joyful helping her throughout the day.
Reduced demand for social interaction
Outdoor sensory spaces allow engagement without requiring conversation, eye contact, or social performance. This can feel restorative and calming and very often means that Iris is actually more social than she would be in a more typical social scenario.
Independence and confidence
Gardening activities can support:
- Decision-makin
- Routine-building
- Responsibility
- Practical life skills
Seeing plants grow from her own effort builds self-esteem and a sense of competence.
This project will be on going and continually evolving. It can be fine tuned to what ever interests come alive over the years to come.



















